Supercharge your
Relationship Intimacy
A Human Design infused Relationship Program
with
Stephanie Fabela & Dan O'Neil
All About Intimacy ~ Supporting you in staying well-connected!
Supercharge your
Relationship Intimacy
A Human Design infused Relationship Program
with Stephanie Fabela & Dan O'Neil
All About Intimacy ~ Supporting you to stay well-connected!
Supercharge your
Relationship Intimacy
A Human Design infused Relationship Program
with Stephanie Fabela & Dan O'Neil
Discover your Unique Intimacy Blueprint
Join Stephanie & Dan for this Online Intimacy Program where you'll be studying nine areas of connection that will help you to create better intimacy with yourself and others. This Program includes an online Training Site for members (that you get immediate access to) and five-months of interactive coaching on the group mastermind calls.
We'll be using the lens of Human Design to help you decode your 'intimacy superpowers' so that you can learn new ways to work with your nature rather than against it. For example, if you were a bird and you had a habit of hopping around everywhere ... understanding your nature better would mean that you'd discover you have wings! We'll be there to give you the guidance you need to learn how to use them, so that you can start flying and enjoying a much more effective way to share yourself with the world.
We want to help you be successful in sharing your love with those who matter most to you!
The nine areas of connection that we'll be studying correspond to what Human Design calls your nine 'energy centers'. This is what makes up your Unique Intimacy Blueprint - your built-in 'connection software' that enables your 'relationship operating system' to thrive!
Note: This is a relationship program that is focused on helping you to become aware of what you're doing that is and isn't working in your relationships to create authentic connection and closeness with the important people in your life. We are using Human Design as a framework to highlight different aspects of your intimacy needs and relating habits along with different options that can work better to support the effectiveness of your intimacy. We will not be studying all aspects of Human Design; it will be our 'flavoring' rather than our focus - because, remember, we are all about INTIMACY!
Intimacy is the art of nurturing
closeness and transforming closure into connection.
Our personal & relationship Human Design chart
We're committed to helping you build better connection, closeness & understanding with the people who matter most!
How do you express and receive love?
Intimacy occurs in various forms with different characteristics. Romantic intimacy often includes a sexual component. Emotional intimacy is about 'getting naked' in a different way - opening your heart and the private world of your inner experiences and feelings to another.
!
Intimacy is expressed and received through the way you use physical contact and touch to share your fondness or hunger for closeness. It's in the way you feel loved as you're on the receiving end of someone's caring, focused attention. It is transmitted through the way we consider and serve each other's needs. It's in the words and tone we use to show how we're seeing each other and holding our connection with gratitude, reverence, and respect. It's delivered and absorbed through our gifts of appreciation and thoughtfulness that reflect the meaningful impact we make in each other's lives.
Understanding your Unique Intimacy Blueprint helps to reduce the uncertainty and confusion that causes you to doubt yourself and remain insecure in your connections. In the same way that it's helpful to read the operating manual for a new appliance or device, you can use the template of your Unique Intimacy Blueprint as an operating manual that shows you how to Supercharge Your Relationship Intimacy!
Discover your Unique Intimacy Blueprint
Join Stephanie & Dan for this Online Intimacy Program where you'll be studying nine areas of connection that will help you to create better intimacy with yourself and others. This Program includes an online Training Site for members (that you get immediate access to) and five-months of interactive coaching on the group mastermind calls.
We'll be using the lens of Human Design to help you decode your 'intimacy superpowers' so that you can learn new ways to work with your nature rather than against it. For example, if you were a bird and you had a habit of hopping around everywhere ... understanding your nature better would mean that you'd discover you have wings! We'll be there to give you the guidance you need to learn how to use them, so that you can start flying and enjoying a much more effective way to share yourself with the world.
We want to help you be successful in sharing your love with those who matter most to you!
The nine areas of connection that we'll be studying correspond to what Human Design calls your nine 'energy centers'. This is what makes up your Unique Intimacy Blueprint - your built-in 'connection software' that enables your 'relationship operating system' to thrive!
Note: This is a relationship program that is focused on helping you to become aware of what you're doing that is and isn't working in your relationships to create authentic connection and closeness with the important people in your life. We are using Human Design as a framework to highlight different aspects of your intimacy needs and relating habits along with different options that can work better to support the effectiveness of your intimacy. We will not be studying all aspects of Human Design; it will be our 'flavoring' rather than our focus - because, remember, we are all about INTIMACY!
How do you express and receive love?
Intimacy occurs in various forms with different characteristics. Romantic intimacy often includes a sexual component. Emotional intimacy is about 'getting naked' in a different way - opening your heart and the private world of your inner experiences and feelings to another.
!
Intimacy is expressed and received through the way you use physical contact and touch to share your fondness or hunger for closeness. It's in the way you feel loved as you're on the receiving end of someone's caring, focused attention. It is transmitted through the way we consider and serve each other's needs. It's in the words and tone we use to show how we're seeing each other and holding our connection with gratitude, reverence, and respect. It's delivered and absorbed through our gifts of appreciation and thoughtfulness that reflect the meaningful impact we make in each other's lives.
Understanding your Unique Intimacy Blueprint helps to reduce the uncertainty and confusion that causes you to doubt yourself and remain insecure in your connections. In the same way that it's helpful to read the operating manual for a new appliance or device, you can use the template of your Unique Intimacy Blueprint as an operating manual that shows you how to Supercharge Your Relationship Intimacy!
More Ease & Confidence
in your Connections
Knowledge, Skills &
Tools for Success
A Supportive Plan for
your Intimacy
Most people load their connections with disappointment and disapproval, which is poison to intimacy.
Come learn the intimacy art of how to appreciate and recognize each other, even when you're dissatisfied with how things turn out.
It's easier than you might think!
We'll be sharing the strategies that we have used for the past 10 years to mentor others in their relationship intimacy. These same tools form our 'operating system' for success in our working and romantic relationship.
In addition to the live calls, you get access to the online Training Portal so you can review everything you learn in the program as often as you want!
Learn to create a supportive plan that will give you the best chance at feeling more capable, secure, and positive in your intimate interactions with the important people in your life.
Creating clear agreements and a supportive plan promotes greater ease and hope, which makes a world of difference to all your relationships!
More Ease & Confidence
in your Connections
Most people load their connections with disappointment and disapproval, which is poison to intimacy.
Come learn the intimacy art of how to appreciate and recognize each other, even when you're dissatisfied with how things turn out.
It's easier than you might think!
Knowledge, Skills &
Tools for Success
We'll be sharing the strategies that we have used for the past 10 years to mentor others in their relationship intimacy. These same tools form our 'operating system' for success in our working and romantic relationship.
In addition to the live calls, you get access to the online Training Portal so you can review everything you learn in the program as often as you want!
A Supportive Plan
for your Intimacy
Learn to create a supportive plan that will give you the best chance at feeling more capable, secure, and positive in your intimate interactions with the important people in your life.
Creating clear agreements and a supportive plan promotes greater ease and hope, which makes a world of difference to all your relationships!
Supercharge Your Relationship Intimacy
Discover Your Unique Intimacy Blueprint
Immediate access to the Supercharge Training Portal when you register!
ALL THE DETAILS
Get Started Today!
The Online Training is available as soon as you register.
OPTION 1
Every other SUNDAY @ 6:00-7:30pm UK starting Jan 29th
(extra week break for Easter - see dates below)
7:00pm Europe, 1:00pm Eastern, 10:00am Pacific
NOTE: 12th March - US call time starts one hour later (due to Daylight Savings).
OR
OPTION 2
Every other MONDAY @ 6:00-7:30pm UK starting Jan 30th
(extra week break for Easter - see dates below)
7:00pm Europe, 1:00pm Eastern, 10:00am Pacific
NOTE: 13th March - US call time starts one hour later (due to Daylight Savings).
CALL DATES
GROUP 1 - Sundays
29th January
12th FEBRUARY
26th February
12th MARCH
26th March
GROUP 2 - Mondays
30th January
13th FEBRUARY
27th February
13th MARCH
27th March
CALLS 1-5
Group Intros / Design Overview
HOW YOU COMMUNICATE: Part 1 - How you Think & get Inspired; Part 2 - How you Process Information & gain Perspective; Part 3 - How you Speak & Share your world
HOW YOU MAKE DECISIONS: Part 1 - Emotional Awareness
Holiday BREAK - No Calls
April 2nd & 9th
GROUP 1 - Sundays
16th APRIL
30th April
14th MAY
28th May
11th JUNE
25th June
GROUP 2 - Mondays
17th APRIL
1st May
15th MAY
29th May
12th JUNE
26th June
CALLS 7-11
HOW YOU MAKE DECISIONS: Part 2 - Gut Knowing; Part 3 - Intuition & Instinct
HOW YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF: Part 1 - Love & Life Direction;
Part 2 - Will Power & Promises; Part 3 - Stress & Taking Action
INTEGRATION
Replays provided for all Calls
Begin your studies immediately through the online
Training Portal when you Register!
Supercharge Your Relationship Intimacy
Discover Your Unique Intimacy Blueprint
ALL THE DETAILS
Get Started Today!
The Online Training is available as soon as you register.
OPTION 1
Every other SUNDAY @ 6:00-7:30pm UK starting Jan 29th
(extra week break for Easter - see dates below)
7:00pm Europe, 1:00pm Eastern, 10:00am Pacific
NOTE: 12th March - US call time starts one hour later (due to Daylight Savings).
OR
OPTION 2
Every other MONDAY @ 6:00-7:30pm UK starting Jan 30th
(extra week break for Easter - see dates below)
7:00pm Europe, 1:00pm Eastern, 10:00am Pacific
NOTE: 13th March - US call time starts one hour later (due to Daylight Savings).
CALL DATES
CALLS 1-5
GROUP 1 DATES: JAN 29th, FEB 12th & 26th, MAR 12th & 26th
GROUP 2 DATES: JAN 30th, FEB 13th & 27th, MAR 13th & 27th
CALL TOPICS:
CALL 1: Group Intros / Design Overview
CALLS 2-4: HOW YOU COMMUNICATE: Part 1 - How you Think & get Inspired; Part 2 - How you Process Information & gain Perspective; Part 3 - How you Speak & Share your world
CALL 5: HOW YOU MAKE DECISIONS: Part 1 - Emotional Awareness
Holiday BREAK - No Calls
April 2nd & 9th
CALLS 6-11
GROUP 1 DATES: APR 16th & 30th, MAY 14th & 28th, JUN 11th & 25th
GROUP 2 DATES: APR 17th, MAY 1st, 15th & 29th, JUN 12th & 26th
CALL TOPICS:
CALLS 6 & 7: HOW YOU MAKE DECISIONS: Part 2 - Gut Knowing; Part 3 - Intuition & Instinct
CALLS 8-10: HOW YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF: Part 1 - Love & Life Direction;
Part 2 - Will Power & Promises; Part 3 - Stress & Taking Action
CALL 11: INTEGRATION
Replays provided for all Calls
Begin your studies immediately through the online
Training Portal when you Register!
YOUR INVESTMENT
Join us on your own or with your important person!
Romantic Partner, Family Member, Friend, Business Partner
It's your choice whether you attend the calls on your own or together with your important person
as you learn how you can create more connection & closeness!
WHAT'S INCLUDED WHEN YOU REGISTER:
Instant Access to the Training Portal
Access to all Live Calls (Jan - Jun)
Call Replays to watch when you like
Access to all future course updates
PAY IN FULL
One Payment of
£450 GBP
save £51
PAYMENT PLAN
Three Payments of
£167 GBP
or pay upfront and save £51
Program Conditions: Once you register, you have 7 days to change your mind and request a refund of your full payment or first payment. After this period, all sales are final and non-refundable. Payment plans must be completed regardless of missed calls or choosing not to complete the course.
Although we recommend that you join the program with a partner/important person, we know that sometimes this isn't possible - due to their availability, if they're a child or ex-partner, or they may be deceased. When you register for the program, please let us know if your person won't be joining the live calls. Additionally, let us know if you would like them to have their own access to the call replays and Training Portal. They will need to complete a simple, online confidentiality agreement prior to us granting them access.
As long as you've paid in full or your payment plan is up-to-date, you will get access to the call replays. All prices for this program are listed and payable in GBP (Pounds). This purchase will appear on your statement as "All About Intimacy".
Frequently Asked...
NO, you do not need prior experience or knowledge of Human Design to gain benefit from this course! We will be using Human Design as a lens, like looking through a magnifying glass, to help you see your relationship dynamics more clearly. You won't need to study Human Design - you'll just naturally learn things about it through your relationship study.
This framework is simply an efficient means of guiding you through the common areas where human beings work differently and how these differences impact your quality of connection. Think of it like adding a helping of vitamins and enzymes into your 'relating diet' so that you can receive and create the kind of closeness and connection you want with more ease. In other words, the focus of this Program isn't to teach you Human Design. Our focus is to help you upgrade your relationship intelligence!
As natural investigators of how human beings express aliveness, love, and intimacy, we absolutely love Human Design! We love using it to help people short-cut their understanding of themselves and others. Like many other self-actualization frameworks, Human Design provides each of us with a roadmap for our 'deconditioning process'. This is the process of shedding the pressure of pre-existing expectations of who you should be, and then discovering the authentic expression of who you want to be and what you want to experience in your lifetime.
Human Design is one of the many frameworks we use to shine a spotlight on the important areas of growth that are required for your relationship and self-intimacy to thrive. We utilize many tools to help you gain more awareness and depth of compassion, for yourself and with others, in order to co-create exceptional connection.
You definitely don't have to love it like we do! All we ask is that you allow yourself to be moved by the wisdom you receive, and that you are open to the benefits that come from applying what you learn with us.
We've got you covered! It's no problem if you miss a call or two due to important life considerations. All our calls are recorded and will be made available as a replay for participants to review in the online Training Portal. This way, you can easily catch up if you miss a call and feel relaxed to revisit any of the call topics as many times as you like.
For this course, you'll be asked to choose one specific relationship that you want to use as your 'case study' while you learn. Everything that you'll learn can be applied later to your other important relationships after you learn how to see yourself and others more clearly.
The best relationship to choose is one where you have closeness or crave more closeness with someone you spend (or have spent) a lot of time with. A spouse or romantic partner is a great choice, but this framework is also excellent for learning more about your connection with a child (7yrs or older), or with a parent or sibling. Another good choice would be a close friendship or business partner - where your livelihood depends on the best partnership you can create.
You could also choose to study your relationship with a past relationship or deceased partner, parent, or relative as a way to explore a deeper level of resolution and healing with a deeper understanding of your past connection dynamics.
You may want to look at a group dynamic, like a polyamorous pod, or a family system (two parents plus children, or multiple siblings). Just know that the group calls will be focused on giving advice for 1-to-1 relationships. Since we'd love you to have what you want, please reach out to us at stephanie@allaboutintimacy.com if you want to explore a more complex relationship system, so we can talk about your desires and make a plan.
Even though the 1-to-1 dynamics definitely translate to a group system, you will likely benefit from a few private mentoring sessions to help you apply what you're learning to your unique situation. Personal Support Sessions can be purchased anytime throughout the course to help you translate your insights into practical steps toward improving your connections.
The amazing thing about this Program is that you can get immense benefits for your relationship, even if your person/partner isn't able to or isn't open to joining you. It's a great step to take for yourself, so you can bring a better, more compassionate and understanding version of yourself to your relationship - which on it's own, can make a world a difference!
Often, the biggest impact we make on others is by showing up with fresh awareness and more resourceful responses, to our own needs and to our person's needs, in ways that inject a new level of patience, compassion & acceptance into the connection.
For sure! Please reach out to us by clicking the CONTACT US button below to ask your questions or to schedule a Clarity Call with us.
You have the option to purchase Personal Support Sessions at the most discounted cost of £225 (£75 x 3 sessions) when you add this upgrade to your Registration CART. Or you can purchase one or more sessions as needed during the Program and up to one month following our final call for £85 per session (normally £130).
These sessions are a great way to support and upgrade your intimacy - and also to help you apply what you're learning to your real-time challenges. Even if your partner/person can't attend the calls with you, they are still welcome to join you in a personalised relationship support session.
Sessions are 75-minutes for a 1-to-1 session with Stephanie or Dan separately - OR - 50-minutes for the same price if you & your important person want to meet with Dan & Stephanie together to receive personalised relationship support.
Helping you build better connection, closeness & understanding with the people who matter most!
What Others Have To Say
Stephanie & Dan know how to listen beyond our words and recognize what our intimacy needs to keep us growing & thriving. Their insights into Human Design have given us a fresh perspective on old challenges, so that we can keep finding new ways of learning about ourselves and each other after 30 years together. It means so much to know that they are dedicated to our connection success!
Noah & Coco Rosenblatt-Farrell
USA
With Stephanie & Dan's help, I've learned to understand what I need and how my emotional world works. I'm now able to easily and clearly communicate what’s important to me in a way that creates love where I used to settle for closure and compromise.
Geoff Newton
The Netherlands
Supporting you in
staying well-connected!
Stephanie & Dan have a gift for inspiring us to live our intimacy in ways that are more creative and fulfilling in the areas that matter most to us - our communication, sexuality, and our purpose. Their support is the perfect container to keep our 20-year love affair alive with passion and wonder for accepting who we are & discovering who we can be in our fuller potential, individually and together.
Werner & Andrea Salzmann
Switzerland
What Others Have To Say
Stephanie & Dan know how to listen beyond our words and recognize what our intimacy needs to keep us growing & thriving. Their insights into Human Design have given us a fresh perspective on old challenges, so that we can keep finding new ways of learning about ourselves and each other after 30 years together. It means so much to know that they are dedicated to our connection success!
Noah & Coco Rosenblatt-Farrell
USA
Stephanie & Dan have a gift for inspiring us to live our intimacy in ways that are more creative and fulfilling in the areas that matter most to us - our communication, sexuality, and our purpose. Their support is the perfect container to keep our 20-year love affair alive with passion and wonder for accepting who we are & discovering who we can be in our fuller potential, individually and together.
Werner & Andrea Salzmann
Switzerland
With Stephanie & Dan's help, I've learned to understand what I need and how my emotional world works. I'm now able to easily and clearly communicate what’s important to me in a way that creates love where I used to settle for closure and compromise.
Geoff Newton
The Netherlands
Supporting you to
stay well-connected!
Relationship CASE STUDY
Let's take a look at how helpful the study of a relationship's Unique Intimacy Blueprint can be!
CLIENT CASE STUDY
Romantic Partners - From the lens of Human Design, the Self/Identity Center supplies us with energy for how consistent or flexible our sense of Self is designed to be, how we prefer to express love, and how important direction is in our lives. In this case study, the woman has a DEFINED Self Center; the man is UNDEFINED.
You’ll learn more about this in the Program, but put simply:
INTIMACY CHALLENGE: Conflict & Hurt Feelings
This couple’s differences were magnified when they attended parties and social gatherings. He moved more quickly and enthusiastically into the group, easily making connections, and she was slower to mix-in, being more of an observer to find the ‘right’ kind of people she felt drawn to.
Based on her defined Self, she expected him to be consistent and 'fixed' in the ways he expressed his affection when they were on their own or out with others, given that this is how it worked for her. Based on his open definition of Self, he blended and merged socially in his own flexible way, expecting that it would make sense to his partner to do the same. They each expected the other to operate in the way that worked best for them.
We cannot consider what we don’t understand about ourselves or others.
She didn't understand why he changed and seemed to move away from their connection when he was around others. This confusion fostered anxiety which provoked the hurt of not feeling considered as a priority and not being important enough to remember. He felt pressured by her expectation that they would move about as a couple at gatherings and controlled by the growing anxiety that she would bring to him, which felt like accusations of wrong-doing on his part.
We take things personally when we don’t understand why others react differently than we expect.
Because he felt unfairly blamed for not meeting her expectations, he would shut down and withdraw from their connection. Because she felt undeservingly forgotten, she began to question if their connection was sustainable. They were both taking things too personal and feeling very misunderstood by the other, while not clearly understanding why this seemingly innocent situation was stirring up so much pain & conflict in their connection.
INTIMACY BLUEPRINT SUCCESS
By understanding how they are each uniquely designed to express their sense of self and direct their love, they have been able to be more accepting of each other. As a result, they made new agreements and created a plan that felt kind and considerate to both their needs. Now, their socialising is successful rather than painful!
READY TO GET STARTED?
Attend the calls on your own or with your important person!
WHAT'S INCLUDED WHEN YOU REGISTER:
Instant Access to the Training Portal
Access to all Live Calls (Jan - Jun)
Call Replays to watch when you like
Access to all future course updates
PAY IN FULL
One Payment of
£450 GBP
save £51
PAYMENT PLAN
Three Payments of
£167 GBP
or pay upfront and save £51
Program Conditions: Once you register, you have 7 days to change your mind and request a refund of your full payment or first payment. After this period, all sales are final and non-refundable. Payment plans must be completed regardless of missed calls or choosing not to complete the course.
Although we recommend that you join the program with a partner/important person, we know that sometimes this isn't possible - due to their availability, if they're a child or ex-partner, or they may be deceased. When you register for the program, please let us know if your person won't be joining the live calls. Additionally, let us know if you would like them to have their own access to the call replays and Training Portal. They will need to complete a simple, online confidentiality agreement prior to us granting them access.
As long as you've paid in full or your payment plan is up-to-date, you will get access to the call replays. All prices for this program are listed and payable in GBP (Pounds). This purchase will appear on your statement as "All About Intimacy".
Helping you build better connection, closeness & understanding with the people who matter most!
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